After the Click: How a mother and her son fostered a new family relationship – 23andMe February 20, 2020

Here’s the latest 23andMe update – After the Click: How a mother and her son fostered a new family relationship – 23andMe February 20, 2020: https://blog.23andme.com/ancestry/after-the-click-how-a-mother-and-her-son-fostered-a-new-family-relationship/.

By David Silverberg

During Christmas three years ago, when Doug Clarke and his wife exchanged 23andMe DNA kits as gifts, he had no clue his life would be irrevocably changed.

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The 54-year-old Lexington, Kentucky resident always long known he’d been adopted and he wasn’t searching for his birth parents. Rather, he took the 23andMe test to find out if he was at risk for certain health conditions.

But when the results revealed that a relative lived in New York, Doug reached out to him and found out this man was his cousin. Doug’s newfound cousin told him, “My aunt, Patricia, is your mother.”

A New Family Relationship

Within weeks, Doug was on a plane to Santa Cruz where his birth mother lived. It had been a tough year for Doug: he lost his father months before taking the DNA test, and the two had been very close growing up.

“To find my birth mother helped ease that sting of losing the father who raised me,” Clarke said in an interview.

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Patricia and Doug joined 23andMe for a special Mother’s Day event in 2018 where we chronicled their story in a video:

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Spending Time

But it’s the relationship that the two have formed since that initial meeting, that has been the true gift. Their story of building a bond that has only grown since that first meeting is something they both have worked at nurturing. Now they talk every week on Sundays and spend holidays together. They have merged their two families allowing them to gradually become acquainted.

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What New DNA Relatives Should Expect

It’s not just Doug she’s bonded with but his family too.  Patricia is gradually getting to know Doug’s wife Lisa, his daughter-in-law, his sister, nephew, and brother-in-law. For his part, Doug is in touch with his half-sister and cousins, aunts and uncles from Patricia’s side of the family.

 

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David Silverberg is a freelance journalist and content creator who regularly contributes to BBC News, The Washington Post, Business Insider, and Gamespot. He is also a theatre artist and wrote about his Jewish heritage in his new solo show Jewnique. Find him at DavidSilverberg.ca

 

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