Military Flag Holders at the Cemetery – BillionGraves August 6, 2019

I saw this in an e-mail yesterday from BillionGravesMilitary Flag Holders at the Cemetery:

I will give a couple of words of caution – there are places that sell military flag holders or what appear to be military flag holders and in some cases may actually be military flag holders. In some cases, I  have seen military flag holders that were out of place. For example, somebody born after World War I having a World War I flag holder. Or, a non-veteran who has a military flag holder.

The other word of caution is many veteran cemeteries don’t allow the placement of military flag holders; always check with the cemetery before requesting one. My parents are in a V. A. military cemetery which does not allow flag holders. In addition, private and public cemeteries may not allow use. This is especially true for those cemeteries that require flat headstones to make taking care of the grounds easier.

We’ve all seen them – those military flag holders at the cemetery. They are often right next to the gravestone of a Veteran, sometimes holding a flag but more often empty. But exactly why are they there? Who put them there? And what can they tell us about our ancestors?

As genealogists, we often spend a great deal of time searching for ancestor’s gravestones, carefully noting the names and dates to record in our family trees. It would also be wise to pay attention to those flag holders nearby. They aren’t all the same. Military flag holders can give us clues about where veterans lived, served, or died.


America’s Wars

Before we can begin to understand military flag holders in the cemetery we need to know which wars they commemorate. The US Department of Veteran Affairs lists America’s Wars as:

  • American Revolution (1775-1783)
  • War of 1812 (1812-1815)
  • Indian Wars (approx. 1817-1898)
  • Mexican War (1846-1848)
  • Civil War (1861-1865)
  • Spanish-American War (1898-1902)
  • World War I (1917-1918)
  • World War II (1941 –1945)
  • Korean War (1950-1953)
  • Vietnam War (1964-1975)
  • Desert Shield/Desert Storm (1990- 1991)
  • Global War on Terror (Oct 2001 – )

Some areas also offer peacetime Veteran flag holders.


Who is Eligible for Military Flag Holders?

In most cases, Veterans became eligible for federal benefits – including military flag holders – by having served in the military during the specified time period, not necessarily in the war zone itself.

Rules for military flag holders are mandated by state laws, rather than by federal laws, as one might assume. Each state differs in its regulations. Some states require military flag holders to mark the graves of Veterans but others do not.


Who Put those Flag Holders There Anyway?

Sometimes flag holders are placed by family members and others by community service organizations.

The American Legion is the most common community group to contribute to the cause. The US Congress commissioned and chartered the American Legion in 1919, as a patriotic Veterans organization to promote volunteerism and helpfulness.

In states where military flag holders are mandated, they are purchased by the counties with public funds. In most cases, families submit a request form and then the medallions are issued at county offices.


What are Military Flag Holders Made Out Of?

Some states dictate that military flag holders must be made of aluminum or bronze, while others allow plastic. In older cemeteries, you will often find flag markers made of iron.

The backside usually has two loops for the flagstick and a little shelf for the base of the flag.

American Revolution Military Flag Holders (1775-1783)


Revolutionary War flag holders were made from a variety of different metals and came in various colors. The memorial in this photo is a common style and is made of bronze.

Facts about the Revolutionary War

  • The American Revolutionary War lasted for eight years.
  • American colonists who favored independence were called Patriots.
  • Colonists who were loyal to the British crown were known as Loyalists.
  • British soldiers were called Redcoats.
  • During the chaos of war, 30% of South Carolina’s slaves escaped, migrated or died.
  • The main cause of death during the war was disease – usually in unsanitary prisoner camps and on war ships.
This iron Revolutionary War flag holder features a soldier in
a colonial uniform with a rifle and cannon. There are 13 stars
across the bottom of the outer circle, representing the 13 colonies.

The American Revolution was first called the War of 1776.

War of 1812 Military Flag Holders (1812-1815)


The War of 1812 was a conflict fought between the United States and Great Britain over maritime rights. It ended with the Treaty of Ghent.

Some of the highlights often remembered from this time period are:

  • the writing of America’s national anthem, The Star-Spangled Banner
  • the burning of the US capital
  • the Battle of New Orleans

Indian Wars Military Flag Holders (1642-1898)


This gravestone flag holder memorializes Veterans who fought in the Indian Wars, a title that encompasses many armed conflicts. The Indian Wars were the result of land disputes, cultural differences, and crimes committed by both native and non-native peoples in North America.

In addition, European nations and their established colonies often enticed Indian tribes to side with them in warfare to expand or protect their settlements. Thus the battles included the native people of North America, British, French, Dutch, Spanish, Mexicans, and those from the British Colonies/United States.

The conflicts escalated after 1780 as white settlers expanded to the west. And in 1830, the US Congress approved the Indian Removal Act which authorized the relocation of native peoples to the frontier lands west of the Mississippi River.

There were far too many battles to list them all, but here are some of the Indian Wars:

  • Beaver Wars (1642-1698)
  • King Phillip’s War (1675–1676)
  • Susquehannock War (1675-1676)
  • French and Indian War (1754-1763)
  • Anglo-Cherokee War (1758–1761)
  • Lord Dunmore’s War (1773)
  • Chickamauga Wars (1776-1794)
  • Little Turtle’s War (1786-1795)
  • Tecumseh’s War (1811-1813)
  • Creek War (1813-1814)
  • Black Hawk War (1832)
  • Cayuse War (1848-1855)
  • Mariposa War (1851)
  • Mojave War (1858)
  • Sioux War (1862-1864)
  • Navajo War (1863-1864)
  • Red Cloud’s War (1866-1868)
  • Snake War (1866-1868)
  • Modoc War (1873)
  • Apache War (1876-1883)
  • Sioux War (1876-1877)
  • Sheepeater War (1879)

Mexican War Military Flag Holders (1846-1848)


The Mexican War was a 2-year armed conflict that began with the 1845 U.S. annexation of Texas, which was disputed by the Mexican government.

In the end, about one-third of Mexico’s territory was turned over to the United States, including almost all of present-day Arizona, California, Nevada, New Mexico, and Utah.

Civil War Military Flag Holders (1861-1865)


Between 1861 and 1865, nearly every family in the United States was impacted by the Civil War. In the north, more than 1/3 of all men of military age served in the Civil War. And in the southern states, it was nearly 2/3.

It was America’s deadliest war. Each day about 600 people were killed. More soldiers died during the Civil War than in WWI, WWII, the Korean War, and the Vietnam War combined.

Most of these deaths came not at the point of a rifle or bayonet, but by disease – measles, chickenpox, mumps, and malaria.


Union Army

  • Total Service Members – 2,213,363
  • Battle Deaths – 140,414
  • Other Deaths – 224,097
  • Non-mortal Wounds – 281,881

Confederate Army

  • Total Service Members – 1,050,000
  • Battle Deaths – 74,524
  • Other Deaths – 59,297
  • Non-mortal Wounds – unknown

The sacrifices of Civil War soldiers were long remembered in the northern Union and in the Confederate south. Even today, many cemeteries are filled with tributes to Civil War fallen soldiers and Veterans.

One of the honors given to Civil War Veterans, whether killed in the war or dying much later, was the posting of a Veteran medallion flag holder on their grave. This was a practice for both the Grand Army of the Republic (GAR) and the Confederate States of America (CSA).

The armed forces of the northern states were called the Grand Army of the Republic.
The southern states went by the title of the Confederate States of America.
The back of the Confederate States of America flag holder
bears the Latin inscription “Deo Vindice,”
which means “vengeful God” or “God will vindicate.”

Both Sides Expected to Win

The Northern States anticipated winning the Civil War because:

  • there were more factories in the north to manufacture guns and bullets
  • the north had more railroads, which made transporting weapons and supplies easier
  • there was a higher population, hence more soldiers

The Southern States expected to win the Civil War because:

  • most of the fighting took place in the south, so they knew the territory
  • they were battling to preserve their livelihoods and way of life
  • there were more skilled horsemen and marksmen in south
The front side of a damaged Grand Army of the Republic flag holder
The backside of the same Grand Army of the Republic flag holder

Genealogy Tip

Many of the Grand Army of the Republic flag holders have lodge numbers on them. These lodge numbers are also recorded at the Library of Congress along with the soldier’s names and the location of their home posts. This can be very useful to help you find more information about your Veteran ancestors. You can view the record here.

Since brothers, cousins, or other family members often enlisted together, you may just find another branch of your family by checking out the lodge numbers on these Civil War flag holders!


Interesting Civil War Facts

  • Soldiers walked an average of 15 to 20 miles per day.
  • Mercury was the most commonly used medication.
  • General Robert E. Lee led the Confederate Army out of respect for his home state of Virginia, even though he opposed both slavery and succession. Toward the end of the war, his 1,100-acre family estate was seized and later became the grounds used for Arlington National Cemetery.
  • Abraham Lincoln was invited to speak at Gettysburg only as an afterthought. The main speaker, Everett Emerson, spoke for 2 hours. But it was Lincoln’s 2-minute Gettysburg address that went down in history.

The Southern Cross of Honor was a medal awarded by the United Daughters of the Confederacy to the living United Confederate Veterans for honorable service. It became the pattern for Confederate flag holders.


Every Union Veteran was awarded a Grand Army of the Republic Medal of Honor like the one pictured above. This medal became the model for the GAR Civil War flag holder still seen on many graves today.


Each arm of the star medallion flag holder was inscribed with a symbol representing a branch of the military.

Spanish-American War Military Flag Holders (1898-1902)


Spanish-American grave markers have been placed in honor of US military members who served in conflicts related to Cuba in the late 1800s. During this time period, Cuba was attempting to transition from a Spanish colony to an independent nation.

The reasons for war are often complex, as is true in this case. Some journalists reported that US involvement had to do with guarding economic interests in the Cuban sugar industry. Others printed photos of Cuban citizens who were being starved to death in Spanish-ruled concentration camps and appealed for intervention for humanitarian reasons.

The Spanish-American War lasted just 10 weeks but quickly expanded to include the Philippine Islands and Porto Rico.

In the end, by a peace treaty, the United States gained Spain’s colonies of the Philippines, Guam and Puerto Rico, and Cuba became a US protectorate.

World War I Military Flag Holders (1917-1918)


The outer leaves on this flag holder represent a laurel wreath which was used in ancient Greece as an award for victorious Olympians. Hence, it symbolizes victory.

World War I has also been called The Great War or The War to End All Wars (We wish it did!).

The First World War has also been referred to as a global war. More than 70 million troops were mobilized for armed conflict.

There were two primary alliances: the Central Powers and the Allied Powers. The primary members of the Central Powers were Germany and Austria-Hungary. The Allies included France, Great Britain, and Russia. Italy fought first with the Central Powers and later with the Allies.

The United States was not an official ally, but rather joined as an associated member of the Allies. Other associated members included Serbia, Belgium, Greece, Montenegro, and Romania.


World War II Military Flag Holders (1941 –1945)


This brass World War II cemetery marker features the Honorable Discharge symbol commonly known as The Ruptured Duck. It is patterned after the patch that was sewn onto service member’s uniforms to identify those who had been honorably discharged.

The purpose of the patch was to allow civilian police officers and military police to recognize the honorably discharged so they wouldn’t be arrested as deserters. It also kept active military members from walking away from their duty.


Frequently, Veterans often didn’t have any civilian clothes to wear when they left the military. There were two reasons for this.

First, military service members were banned from owning civilian clothing during active duty to discourage desertion. For this reason, they were allowed to wear their uniforms for 30 days after their discharge while arranging for new clothes.

Second, there was a national shortage of clothing during that time period in American history.


Why was it called the Ruptured Duck?

Why was the symbol on this flag holder and patch called the Ruptured Duck? Well, that depends on who you ask. There are plenty of stories and rumors to explain, but here’s one of my favorites . . .

The bird was intended to be the US national symbol, the bald eagle, but some Veterans thought it looked more like a duck. It was facing to the right, the same direction doctors told patients to face when asked to cough during an examination for ruptures.

Got a rupture? You get an honorable discharge! And you get to wear the ruptured duck!

All Veteran’s inside-jokes aside, these World War II gravestone markers are meant to honor those who sacrificed to provide protection for their nation and promote freedom.

Korean War Military Flag Holders (1950-1953)


This iron cemetery flag holder for US Veterans of the Korean War features the four emblems of the military branches – Army, Navy, Air Force, and Marine Corps.


This military flag holder for Korean Veterans is made of brass.

Vietnam War Military Flag Holders (1964-1975)


The Vietnam cemetery flag holder above is made of aluminum and features the emblems of five military branches.


There are five military emblems surrounding a central star and globe on this Vietnam Veterans flag holder.


Desert Shield/Desert Storm Military Flag Holders (1990- 1991)


Operation Desert Shield/Desert Storm took place in 1990 and 1991.

In 1990, 40% of adults had parents who were military Veterans. By 2014, that percentage had dropped to just 16%.

Global War on Terror Military Flag Holders (Oct 2001 – )


The War on Terrorism flag holder borrows the laurel wreath and globe theme from earlier cemetery military medallions.


Cemeteries are for the living, as well as being final resting places for the deceased. They are a place for honoring and remembering those who have passed on.

Hopefully, the information you have gained in this blog post will help you to better understand the times in which your ancestors and family members lived.

On your next trip to the cemetery perhaps you will spot some of these military flag holders and instantly know more about the person that is buried nearby.

We’re Wishing You Peaceful Hours at the Cemetery!

Cathy Wallace and The BillionGraves Team


About ICT Genealogist

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1 Response to Military Flag Holders at the Cemetery – BillionGraves August 6, 2019

  1. SLIMJIM says:

    As a Marine veteran this is fascinating to read about

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